Do the flower girl and ring bearer keep the pillow and basket, or do I???

It depends on how you feel. I%26#039;m giving my flower girls and ringbearer gifts so I may or may not give them their basket or pillow. I think it depends also on how much you care about the basket and such. I haven%26#039;t really decided on what I want to do yet.





If you want to keep them, give them gifts at least so they feel like they were an important part in your wedding.
Do the flower girl and ring bearer keep the pillow and basket, or do I???
Giving the flowergirl the basket might be a nice gesture. But I dont know why a little boy would want to keep a frilly satin pillow anyways. They will probably give that back to you. ;)
Reply:It%26#039;s up to you, but usually the bride and groom do.
Reply:Usually the flower girl keeps the basket, but you would keep the pillow - the ring bearer has no use for it, it%26#039;s a memento for you.
Reply:If you bought them then do whatever you want, but I will tell you it comes a point after the wedding where you run out of stuff to put all the momentos from the day and you might consider letting them enjoy it....I thought I had to keep everything and now its all in a box in a closet...doing me a lot of good huh? :)
Reply:I think they do, just as a courtesy and a way of thanking them for participating in the wedding.
Reply:I am leaving my flowergirl keep her basket, I am not having a ringbearer, but what do you plan on doing w/ them if you keep them?
Reply:it%26#039;s up to you. I would think they woldnt have much use for them. I want my pillow after because my mother in law made it for me....
Reply:I would think it could go either way. You could let them have as a remembrance of your day (at least the flower basket). Or keep them your self and put them up or display them. It all depends on what you want to do.
Reply:you keep it because you are the one getting married usually you have someone get it from them after the wedding
Reply:The bride keeps it, they keep theor boquets, there dress and shoes, the rest you keep.
Reply:you keep it as a rememberence of your day.
Reply:In every wedding I have experienced they do, including my own.
Reply:When I was a flower girl (20 some odd years ago) I was given my flower basket to keep as a memento. I still have it. When I was married, I gave my ring bearers Mom the ring pillow to hang onto for him as a memento.performing arts